Relationships
At Chalmers we work with people with sexual difficulties regardless of their relationship status; whether they are single, in a monogamous or polyamorous relationship, identify as asexual or demisexual and regardless of their or their partner(s) sexual identity or gender.
Although we do not offer relationship counselling we know that it is important to assess each patient’s relationship with themselves and their partner(s) (if applicable).
Psychosexual Therapy can be an intense process and requires focus and commitment and therefore if the relationship is not stable and respectful we may suggest that relationship counselling be undertaken as a first step.
If you believe this may apply to you then undertaking relationship therapy while you wait on an appointment with the psychosexual service may mean that you will be in a better position to engage with psychosexual therapy when an appointment becomes available.
Difficulties with communication are common in couples. We would encourage you to talk to your partner about your perception of the difficulties in the relationship and sexually. You may be surprised by their view of the situation. Working together you may be able to resolve your difficulties.
If it is difficult to talk to your partner or if such conversations seem to end in arguments or distress this is an indication that couple counselling would help more as a first step Organisations that can help can be found here.
If you do not feel safe in your relationship or if you are concerned about your own behaviour please speak to someone you trust and read over the information at: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/getting-help-for-domestic-violence.
These resources provides specific organisation details for women, BME women, men and LGBT+